porchenjoyer:

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Sooooooo on mobile I can’t get my blog description to show more than one fucking line. Functional website. I’ve pared it down to 1 line and I’ll put the rest of Me here. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

  • Bisexual :3
  • Polyamorous uwu
  • Transgender nonbinary man—TME
  • White 🥛
  • “Just some guy”
  • 33 years old (for now)
  • Bear except I’m trying so so hard to grow thick luscious body hair but looking at my dad and cis brother I may be in for a rough time. Family of bipedal fucking sphinx cats.
  • Icon, blog header, and above photo are mine döggies
  • Bulbasaur <3
  • Jack of all trades; master of none. But better than the master of one. I don’t know about plumbing and car repair though, I just mean I’ve learned a lot of different arts and crafts.
  • IBS sufferer. IBS tag is “IBS warriors rise up”
  • Anything particularly nasty re: IBS I’ll tag “unsanitary”
  • I’m never gonna tag. like. sex jokes. The world needs to see those. But anything I personally write and post that describes something explicit I tag it “nsfs (not safe for sister)” because one of my sisters follows me and she doesn’t need to know when I want to **** and ****.

dailymanners:

It’s October 1st and you know what that means

Time to start taking vitamin d and using my light therapy lamp every morning for the next six months so I don’t completely lose it before spring rolls around 🙃

If you too live a stone’s throw from the Arctic circle this is your cordial reminder to start taking your vitamin d and dust off your light therapy lamp before the SAD sets in! Vitamin d and light therapy lamps are most effective when you start using them beginning early in the fall, before your SAD gets too bad. Don’t let the SAD set in and get too bad, start now!

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melindamagpie:

melindamagpie:

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Miss Major, one of the mothers of the trans liberation movement, has been in the hospital for 10 days with sepsis and a blood clot.

She has looked out for us for generations, now it’s time to look out for her. Donate if you can: fundly.com/missmajor

Update from Miss Major’s partner: “Miss Major is at home on hospice. She is comfortable and surrounded by love.”

Donations and good wishes still needed. Anything above and beyond the needs of her care will go to continuing Miss Major’s legacy through Oasis, the retreat for trans people she built.

More details here: Stonewall Veteran Miss Major Griffin-Gracy Has Entered Hospice Care

“I would want my legacy to be: If it ain’t right, fucking fix it, whatever it takes,” Miss Major Griffin-Gracy said. “I’d want to be remembered for trying to do the right thing and care for all people.”

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I don’t have to go back to work for another 5 weeks so I’m reverting slowly to my natural sleep schedule of 1am to 9am

Unfortunately I’m at the point of recovery where I am tricked into thinking I’m fine and clear-headed but I’m trying to stay aware that it’s a trick because I am this close 🤏 to quitting all my responsibilities (the responsibilities I’ve already delegated to others while I’m on leave)

biokitty:

I had a patient come in the other day because she wanted her IUD replaced. It was at the end of it’s life and she loved having her IUD, this was her second one. My MA let me know that the patient was very anxious about getting the IUD replaced, she’d had painful experiences in the past with her other replacements and was dreading this visit for that reason.

I spoke with the patient and she was literally shaking with anxiety. I asked her to describe her prior experiences as well as what she liked about her IUD and what she didn’t like. She said that she wished she didn’t have to get it replaced so often, so I recommended we place a Mirena instead of just inserting a new Kyleena IUD. She was nervous about this because she didn’t want an IUD that was big. I explained that the Mirena and Kyleena are essentially the same size but the Mirena lasts 3 years longer and would likely bridge her to menopause given her age whereas with the Kyleena she’d probably need another replacement to get there. She was okay with trying the Mirena.

I then talked to her about pain control during the procedure as this was what she was most worried about. I asked about her prior experiences and then laid out what I wanted to do to try and improve her experience during this procedure. I told her I planned to give her prescription strength ibuprofen, a heating pad, and a very dense anesthetic block in her cervix to hopefully make it a better experience. If she had had someone to drive her home I would’ve also given her an ativan because we have studies that show patients who report higher rates of anxiety surrounding a procedure also report higher rates of pain associated with it.

She was down for this plan. I gave her a very dense block, she only felt three small injections and then nothing else. She was shocked when I told her that her old IUD was out and the new one was in. She didn’t believe me when I told her it was over.

I don’t tell this story because I wanna brag about how amazing of a doctor I am because I’m not. I tell this story because this is the way IUD insertions SHOULD go and I want people to know that IUD insertions do not need to be traumatic. And I want other providers who may insert IUDs to know that a paracervical block should be your standard when it comes to IUD insertions.

When people find out I’m an OBGYN, complete strangers, acquaintances, etc. , the two things they like to tell me immediately are their horrible birth trauma story and their terrible IUD insertion story and I’m trying to at least make the latter one a little less common.

If you place IUDs and aren’t doing a cervical block, you need to start. This should be the standard but over 90% of OBGYNs in the US aren’t doing them and it’s unacceptable. We are traumatizing people and it’s entirely avoidable. We are scaring people away from one of the most effective and long lasting forms of birth control in a time when people are losing their ability to end unwanted pregnancies all for no justifiable reason.

“It takes too long:” No it doesn’t, that visit took me 20 minutes with a highly anxious patient from start to finish.

“It’s not worth it for such a short/small procedure.” It’s worth it for the patient.

“It’s too expensive.” You can do a paracervical block with just normal saline. You don’t even need lidocaine if you use a generous amount of volume. And if you place Nexplanons I know you stock lidocaine in your office, stop being fucking cheap at the expense of women’s pain.

“Patient’s don’t need it, they’ll get over it.” I’m telling you they do need it and they aren’t getting over it as evidenced by literally everyone wanting to tell me about their terrible IUD insertion experience as soon as they find out I’m an OBGYN.

We should do better. The cervix has nerve endings, stop acting like it doesn’t.

Make cervical blocks your standard of care, there’s no excuse not to.

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newtsoftheworldunite:

eleilinnrallin:

This is a reminder for those who handmake Christmas presents that now is not too early to start. It may in fact be a good time to start if you have a lot to make/your craft takes a long time. You should maybe start it now, whether that’s brainstorming or actually doing the crafts!

Translating this into tumblr’s preferred public service announcement format for this kind of alert:

"time to move the turkey to the fridge" meme updated to show a pile of crocheted granny squares in place of the frozen turkey and captioned "I don't know who needs to hear this but it's time to move the craft projects to the work table"ALT

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